Couples Porn Can Rev Up Your Sex Life



Can Couples Porn Rev Up Your Sex Life?

Watching sexy videos can ignite more sparks with your partner, but it may not be a good idea for everyone.

By Dennis Thompson Jr.

Medically Reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

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If you're ready to watch porn as a couple, choose the video together and go for one that has a decent plot, story line, and lots of erotic language.
If you're ready to watch porn as a couple, choose the video together and go for one that has a decent plot, story line, and lots of erotic language.
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Wondering if you should add porn to your sexual repertoire? For some couples, watching sexy videos can help create more heat between the sheets. But others may find that porn compromises intimacy by desensitizing your reactions to your partner.

"It's a question of intensity, degree, frequency, and type," says Sandra Leiblum, PhD, a sex therapist and director of psychological services at the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness in Bedminster, New Jersey. "Watching porn together can enhance interest and be a boon for couples who are having trouble achieving arousal."

But if one partner views porn frequently and ignores the other partner because the material is so captivating, then it can be detrimental. "It's all about how porn is used," says Dr. Leiblum. Here's how to broach the subject with your significant other and incorporate porn into your sex life.

Asking Your Partner to Watch Porn

If you decide that watching porn is something you want to try with your partner, use your imagination to think of ways you might bring up the subject. For example, you could watch a romantic movie that contains a slightly explicit sex scene and use that as a conversation starter. Or you might bring up couples porn when you're cuddling and sharing secrets or fantasies.

Initially, your partner might be reluctant to watch a sex video with you. Sometimes this hesitation is based on a fear of being unfavorably compared to the actors in the sex video. One response to this concern is to explain that the porn stars involved are actors, and like Hollywood stars, they're not expected to look or act like everyday people — but instead portray ideals likely to prompt arousal.

Choosing the Right Sex Video

When deciding which sex video to watch, choose one with a decent plot, story line, and lots of erotic language. Some adult sex shops have been renovated to make their stores more inviting to couples. "They offer couples the opportunity to explore titles in a clean, well-lit environment," says Patti Britton, PhD, a clinical sexologist and sexuality educator in Los Angeles.

For couples who want to try porn but are embarrassed to set foot in a sex shop, there are plenty of online stores that sell adult DVDs, says Dr. Britton. She recommends a site called FreddyandEddy.com, but says many titles are also available on Amazon.com.

Using Couples Porn

Couples porn is meant to be a fun sexual aid that can be mutually shared and enjoyed. Here are some ways you can view it together:

  • Watch the entire sex video together before actually making love.
  • Watch while cuddling and caressing each other.
  • Have your partner watch or read while you undress for sex in the next room.
  • Try out a position being portrayed in the video or magazine.
  • Give your partner oral sex while he or she watches the sex video.
  • Have sex in a sexual position that allows both of you to watch the video, such as rear-entry.

Couples porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. But make sure both you and your partner are willing participants, and don't become dependent on sex videos every time you make love. In other words, have fun — but use porn in moderation.






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